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    Constant State of Confusion
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    I must be crazy -

    Hello MP'ers!

    I must be nuts! I am an AP (live in Denver). I have an opportunity to be in Anaheim for 3 weekends in a row - courtesy of my company. I have to work during the week, but get to stay and play over the weekends. How awesome is THAT?!

    Here's the crazy part. The first weekend I will be in DLR is June 15th - 17th. We all know what that entails. If I were by myself, I would have NO PROBLEM manuevering the crowds and having a grand time. I have though, eagerly volunteered to escort/chaperone my adult (54 yrs old) special needs cousin around the park that weekend. He lives in the San Bernardino area, and due to his cognitive challenges and other family issues, he has not been to the park in 35 years.

    Physically, my cousin is fine. In fact, he's over 6' tall and about 220 pounds. He can walk well, although with an odd gait. Cognitively, he is about 3 years old. He in on the far end of the autism disorder spectrum in terms of patience and social interaction. He is very verbal and can take care of his own personal needs.

    My uncle has agreed to drive my cousin to Anaheim meet me at a prearranged point on Saturday morning, and then drive back to pick my cousin up Sunday evening. My cousin will share my hotel with me on Saturday night.

    Any special advice or words of wisdom for:
    1) Visiting DLR with a special needs adult?
    2) Particularly THAT weekend?

    Padders are a WEALTH of knowledge and information and I will appreciate any insight you can offer.

    Thanks!

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    That is so kind of you to take your cousin! I am sure mousepadders will be very helpful. I would think your first order of business would be to go to City Hall and get a Guest Assistance card. I am sure that will be most helpful. Have fun and tell us all about it!

    Siggy aka Jill

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    Constant State of Confusion
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    Can I get a Guest Assistance Pass since he is physically capable? I wasn't even thinking along those lines - but if it's available, I am all for it!

    The last time I was in the park I took the opportunity to view the show for "Finding Nemo" from the special observation room. I think that will be perfect for my cousin. If he has a meltdown in a sub - that would be a disaster. A meltdown in the Observation Room - no worries. There is an easy escape!

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ESS Heckler View Post
    Can I get a Guest Assistance Pass since he is physically capable? I wasn't even thinking along those lines - but if it's available, I am all for it!

    The last time I was in the park I took the opportunity to view the show for "Finding Nemo" from the special observation room. I think that will be perfect for my cousin. If he has a meltdown in a sub - that would be a disaster. A meltdown in the Observation Room - no worries. There is an easy escape!
    It's not necessarily for people with physical handicaps, but more for guests like your cousin. Check this link out: http://www.autismspot.com/blog/Disne...ssistance-Card

    Here is a MP thread about it: http://mousepad.mouseplanet.com/show...-Card-worth-it
    Last edited by SigalTchelet; 06-10-2012 at 12:57 PM. Reason: Adding another link
    Siggy aka Jill

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    How sweet of you to share this special time with your cousin! Siggy's tips are good. In addition to getting a GAC, make sure to take lots of photos so you both can remember the fun. Know where the first aid stations are in both parks, just in case. You can also go there for some quiet, air conditioned down time, if your cousin is getting overstimulated -- no one has to be bleeding to go to first aid. The nurses are very nice. Does your cousin have any food issues (e.g. sensitivities, allergies, strong likes/dislikes, etc.)? There are menus online here at MP and at allears.net so you can prepare ahead of time. And it might help to know where the companion restrooms are in both parks, so you can get there quickly if necessary.
    Have a wonderful time sharing the magic!


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    Constant State of Confusion
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    YOu guys are awesome!
    I will definitely check in to the GAC.
    The nurses station is a GREAT idea. Todd is easily over stimulated and will definitely need some down time to avoid melt downs.
    Melt downs with a 6' tall, 200+ lb adult are hard to deal with - for everyone!

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ESS Heckler View Post
    YOu guys are awesome!
    I will definitely check in to the GAC.
    The nurses station is a GREAT idea. Todd is easily over stimulated and will definitely need some down time to avoid melt downs.
    Melt downs with a 6' tall, 200+ lb adult are hard to deal with - for everyone!
    A good place to cool off and avoid meltdowns would be The Disneyland Story presenting Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln at Disneyland and Animation Academy at California Adventure. Tiki Room might be fun for him too. Not sure if it would be too much stimulation.
    Siggy aka Jill

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    Quote Originally Posted by ESS Heckler View Post
    ... Todd is easily over stimulated and will definitely need some down time to avoid melt downs.
    Melt downs with a 6' tall, 200+ lb adult are hard to deal with - for everyone!
    If overstimulation is a problem, I would avoid the Mad T Party or any rides in the backlot area once the party starts.

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    This is an awesome thing you're doing!

    Here are a few more suggestions:

    • Talk to the family about what usually triggers his meltdowns, and plan accordingly.
    • Ask them what he seems to like. If it's cartoons, the Main Street cinema might be a fun thing for him.
    • Make a card (I'd suggest laminated) explaining his condition on one side and your cell phone number on the other. Pin it to his belt loop or shirt, and tell him to show it to someone if he gets lost. If it's done in a bright color, someone can see it if he's unable to show it if he gets lost. With autism, being lost can be very scary - their limited communication skills can be hindered if scared. If he's capable, the family can practice with him before the trip so he knows to show the card if he can't find you.
    • Show him an easy place to go if he gets lost. It's a longshot that he'll remember, but it's worth a shot!
    • I'd say stay away from Carsland and hang out in somewhat less crowded areas of DL instead.
    • The Castle Walkthrough is a great place to get out of the heat and away from the crowds. They also have a HCA viewing room if the walkthrough ends up being too much for him. The HCA viewing area is often empty.
    • Mark Twain and Columbia are relatively quiet and good rides for a bit of down time
    • The island is another place to get away a bit.
    • Have the family show him videos of the park. If possible, videos showing whole rides to see how he responds.
    • If you venture over to DCA, the animation building is a nice, quiet place.


    Have a wonderful time!

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    Constant State of Confusion
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    These are all great suggestions. I love the Tiki Room. And I never would have thought about Great Moments with Lincoln.
    I think that due to the Cars Land opening this weekend, we will be avoiding DCA altogether. Considering that Todd hasn't been to DL in over 35 years, and the slower pace we will be taking - there will be plenty to keep us entertained in DL.

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    Constant State of Confusion
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    Thanks, Escape!
    LOVE the idea of making the laminated card!
    He is VERY concerned about getting lost. As you discerned, his ability to communicate effectively is completely lost when he is in an uncomfortable, unusual environment.
    I have also learned, from previous visits with him, that he NEEDS to know what the schedule is.
    I have used RideMax for years and I think this will be a GREAT opportunity to really put it to the test. I will plan out our day on RideMax and give him a copy of it this week. That way he will know what is in store. I will put in times for Mr Lincoln and Mark Twain and all the other GREAT suggestions you have given me. If he knows what we're doing and when, he is MUCH more comfortable and at ease.
    ALso love the idea of giving him a map ahead of time.

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    I think you are going to be well planned and have an awesome time! Can't wait to hear about your adventure!

    Siggy aka Jill

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    How is he for feel of things? I was thinking some sort of ear plugs would help with the over stimulation. I haven hild who doesn't like loud noises and the foam ones helpe just soften noises to tolerable levels for her. I also saw a boy (about 13 ish) with a pair of noise cancelling headsets (the big ones that cover your whole ears) sitting coloring at a table with his back to Fantasyland. His grown ups were at another table next to him. I got the impression it was down time foran autistic child.


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    Constant State of Confusion
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    Ear plugs!
    Another GREAT MP idea.
    Noise certainly seems to be one of his triggers.
    Sometimes, instead of a meltdown, he goes into an almost catatonic state. It's certainly easier to handle than a meltdown, but then again - he won't be having any fun.
    Best to avoid melt downs and as much over stimulation as possible.
    I think a showing of Billy Hill may be in order, too.
    I read somewhere else that the BIlly Green team is playing at Big Thunder Ranch.

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ESS Heckler View Post
    Ear plugs!
    Another GREAT MP idea.
    I think a showing of Billy Hill may be in order, too.
    I read somewhere else that the BIlly Green team is playing at Big Thunder Ranch.
    Sadly, the Green team is only on stage Tuesdays & Wednesdays at the Festival Arena. I think the Blue team will playing over the weekend. Good idea to stay & play at DL, I hope you and your cousin have a good time.

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    Yes, Billy Hill has moved to the Festival of Fools Arena behind the petting zoo area. Speaking of which, does your cousin like watching animals? Watching the goats or feeding ducks (the downstairs area at Hungry Bear is nice and shady) can be soothing and fun.

    +1 on the ear plugs suggestion. I keep several pairs in my purse all the time for movies, loud muzak, loud restaurants, etc. Both DH and I use them frequently at DLR on rides (can't even do IJA without them!), for shows (fireworks, WOC, F!), and live music (MTP is LOUD!).


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    Some people don't like ear plugs/things in their ears - so make sure he's ok with them before the trip so he can bring ear muffs if needed.

    Cathy

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    Quote Originally Posted by tea4two View Post
    Yes, Billy Hill has moved to the Festival of Fools Arena ...
    For the 15th - 17th weekend, Billy Hill will still be playing at the Golden Horseshoe.

    Billy Hill moves to the Big Thunder Ranch Jamboree (Festival of Fools Arena) on Monday, the 18th of June.

    HTH
    S S Columbia

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    Quote Originally Posted by S S Columbia View Post
    For the 15th - 17th weekend, Billy Hill will still be playing at the Golden Horseshoe.

    Billy Hill moves to the Big Thunder Ranch Jamboree (Festival of Fools Arena) on Monday, the 18th of June.

    HTH
    Thanks for the correction.

    To the OP, are there any photos or videos of your hotel and the kind of room you'll have that your cousin can see to introduce him to where he'll be spending the night? Sometimes sleeping in a different/strange bed and using a different bathroom can be a problem. You might be able to call the hotel to explain the situation and to request a quieter room away from crowded or busy areas and on a lower floor, if elevators are a problem. And if your cousin prefers, he can bring his own pillow and blanket so that the bed feels familiar. And he might want his own toiletries -- sometimes strongly perfumed or different smelling soap and shampoo can cause anxiety. Just some thoughts...

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    Make sure when you get the pass that you get the hand out that explains where all the different special access entrances are to the rides. In Fantasyland it's pretty easy, it's pretty much the exit gate on each ride. Some rides you enter through the Fast Pass Line. Also, ask the desk to write down their contact number as well in case you have any problems with accessing rides, etc. It's handy to have.
    If you're going to do Fantasyland, I'd suggest heading to the Peter Pan ride first - even with the Assisted Pass, there can be a bit of a wait and there can be a line of people in wheelchairs, electric scooters etc waiting in the exit/entrance line as well.
    Also keep in mind that the CMs are not allowed to assist in getting him on or off rides, though it sounds like it won't be a problem unless he balks at getting on or off.


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    At home in the hills candles71's Avatar
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    Exit, except Mr Toad, where if you get a grumpy CM they correct you in a not nice tone. There is a gate between the entrance doorway and the exit gate for Handicap accessible.


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    I don't know if it's been mentioned yet, but I'd suggest avoiding DCA altogether. Cars land opens that weekend, and I'd anticipate mayhem in California Adventure. Constant crowds and wading through lines might be difficult.


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    Constant State of Confusion
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    I wanted to check back in and thank ALL OF YOU for the AWESOME advice. Todd and I had a GREAT day at Disneyland. We avoided DCA all together and found Disneyland to be very quiet - almost like an off-season mid week day. This lack of crowds helped me out immensely. We got Todd a lanyard and some pins almost immediately. He liked having the plastic pouch so he could hold on to his own "tickets" (fast passes). After getting him the pin lanyard I realized that I had created a bit of a monster. Tod had an uncanny talent for being able to pick out THE MOST EXPENSIVE pin in any store on any cart. By the end of the day, he had a great collection. :-)
    I decided against the Guest Assistance Special Pass and decided instead to use the other great suggestions you all gave me. We were able to go on every 'major' ride that was important to Todd. (except Splash which was experiencing technical difficulties) We used the "Observation Room" for Finding Nemo - an excellent choice. We took a break in Great Moments with Mr Lincoln and lucked out to find The Liberty Singers as part of the show. Todd loved the music and clapped the loudest of anyone in the audience. He has memorized Lincoln's Gettysburgh address, so he appreciated "the real history" (his words) that the show represented.
    The only near meltdown we experienced was when our fast passes for Space Mountain were finally valid and we walked all the way down the tunnel only to be told that the ride was down and to come back later. That one was tough. We sat down in the shade of Tommorow Land terrace and decided to ride the Monorail.
    His favorite part of the day was being able to watch the fireworks from Main Street. Todd proclaimed them to be "speck tack ah lar" (phonetic spelling of his pronunciation).
    This trip was such a success we are looking forward to trying a 2 day trip together in the near future.
    THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for the wisdom and suggestions. MPers ROCK!

    Still trying to satisfy my inner child.

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    So glad to hear that you and Todd had a great time! We were in the parks that day, too, and wondered how you were doing. Thanks for coming back with such a great report!


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    That is awesome. I love this board and all the good info I get on here. I am glad your cousin was able to have a good day in the park.

    ~CourtneyAnne~ Single MOM to Twins and MUCH MORE
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