O.K., I admit it - I have never left my two kids with anyone but Grandma. However, my brother is insisting we all go out for a nice dinner sans kids, when we go to WDW in September.

Any recommendations for safe in-room care? Any recommendations for how to get them (AND ME, the MOMMY!) over the stranger anxiety? Would it be rude to constantly leave the table and call to the room every 3 minutes to see if they miss me? LOL!!

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Thanks so much. Unfortunately, my kids will both be under 3, so neither is old enough for the clubs. I can't wait for the next trip, though, cuz I just KNOW they'll love the Pirate cruise!

Are you staying at a WDW hotel? Several years ago when we stayed, we had a sitter arranged thru the concierge. At that time they assured us they were screened. the young lady actually also worked at the park, and brought an activity books for the kids. We had a positive (although nail biting experience) and my kids kept searching for their sitter for the next few days, and of course were thrilled when they found here. My oldest was probably 8 or there about and I remember calling to check in and asking to speak to her as well, which helped a little.

Also, to put my two cents in, do not feel the need to give in to a situation that makes you uncomfortable NO MATTER what your brother says!!! You are the mother and they are your most precious responsibilities. Even if you arrange care, feel strong enough to back out even at the last moment if you something doens't sit right with you. They teach the kids at school to listen to that "uh oh" feeling and so should we. As I said, I had at least one of my kids old enough to use and talk on a phone. I may have opened a can of worms but......

If I had never left my kids with anyone under 3, I would think that this would not be the time to start. You may feel so anxious about it, you may not enjoy your night out. There are so many wonderful kid friendly places to go.

Thanks, guys.

Perhaps I was a little strongly wording "insisted." My brother is a fabulous uncle and would never throw his weight around. If I said I didn't feel comfortable, he'd be fine with that. I'm in 100% agreement with you all on listening to that uh-oh feeling. Maybe you are right that I should not try to leave them alone at WDW this early.

Hmm.... I'll have to think about it!

Maybe you could try it at home before you go so you can see how tense you are and if the kids can deal with it. It might be easier and not as much of a let down if you get half way to the resturant and change your mind. Also if they are both under 3 maybe you could do a late dinner and have them going to bed right after the sitter comes? I know it would make me a bit nervous for the first time, mine have never been with any one who is not related or a very close friend of the family and they are 9 & 6!

Thanks, all. I'm just not sure if I'm ready. Its funny -I spent years with babysitters and *never* had a problem. I was also a babysitter for years - no problem. But, these are my babies! LOL!!